CERMINAN DIRI

Assalamualaikum Wr. Wb

Sebelumnya minal aidin walfaidzin dulu yaaa buat semua blogger Indonesia maap lahir batin jg buat viewers blog gue :p lebaran udah lewat lebih dari seminggu and “nothing special” THR surut, ke Bandung kering musim kemarau,  ada accident keluarga, apalagi ditinggal (mati) sama orang spesial (dulu) HAHA alhamdulillahin ajalah selagi masih bisa napas sampai detik ini wkwk

Kata orang jodoh itu cerminan diri, awalnyasih gue ga percaya sama sekali ahaha karna gue pikir yg namanya jodohmah pasti saling mengisi dan melengkapi satu sama lain. kekurangan pasangan merupakan kelebihan yg kita miliki begitupun kekurangan kita merupakan kelebihan si pasangan. Tapi makin kesini gue kayanya makin percaya dan yakin kalau memang jodoh itu benar cerminan diri. Mengapa demikian? Karna Tuhan menciptakan wanita baik2 untuk pria baik2 pula begitupun pria baik2 diciptakan untuk wanita baik2 pula, yg baca trs ngerasa dan kesindir sih Alhamdulillah kalo ngerasa ahahha. Dan mungkin itu salah satu alasan bijak kenapa Tuhan memisahkan kita, ya karna dunia kita memang beda, lo ke kiri dan gue ke kanan.

Jodohpun akan ditemukan dimana tempat kita sering bergaul, nah disinilah yg paling menentukan. Kalo lo gaul ditempat yg baik2 aja juga bakal nemu jodohnya orang2 baik pula dan sebaliknya kalo lo ngegaul ditempat yg “surganya dunia” ya dapetnya jg yg ga jauh2 dari yg “model begitu”, sama kaya lo nya HAHAHAHAHA bahayanya, kalo lo gaul ditempat salah tp maunya dapet yg bener, helooooowwwww benahin diri aja dulu!! HAHA

Wanita yg sudah berusia kepala dua sudah mulai menata masa depan kalo yg waras sih inimah pasti mikirnya udah kedepan aja, udah mikirin magang, skripsi, sidang outline, sidang magang, siding akhir, lulus bisa bikin ortu lo nangis haru apa engga, lulus kuliah bakal berguna apa membusuk dirumah, mikirin nikah jg. Hal2 kaya gitu emg bisa dilakuin instan? NO!! hanya manusia yg pikirannya pendek yang maunya instan2 aja, hal2 kaya gitu emg terlihat masi jauh kedepan tp harus ditata dari sekarang. Kalo ga, ya ketauan lah masa depan lo bakal kaya apaan wkwk Kesuksesan bukan dateng sendiri aplagi turunan ahahha salah besar, sukses itu lo sendiri yg cari. Kalo sukses turunanmah brarti yg sukses bukan lo nya, tapi leluhur elunya wkwk

Pesan yg bisa diambil adalah jika ingin memiliki pasangan orang baik2 perbaiki dirilah karna yg baik untuk orang baik2 pula. Masalah jodoh, akan datang dg sendirinya kalo memang kita sudah semaksimal mungkin memperbaiki diri. Tenang bro jodoh ga akan ketuker, kalo ga baik buat lo aja ada seleksi alam yg akan gugur dg sendirinya J

Wassalamualaikum Wr. Wb

THIS IS THE FIRST MOMENT AND HOPEFULLY NOT THE LAST, YOU IS NOT THE FIRST BUT PROBABLY THE LAST

Assalamualaikum Wr. Wb

        There are no early end, there was the meeting there was also a farewell. Everyone really wants even very flattering but very do not want a meeting anyway for farewell.

All that came to me was not the first for me, but I really want your the last. When expectation come with so much, in fact you’re the first person who came to stop.

“Rotten apples only corrupted because milk” yes, exacly as the proverb is what I mean here. Ye fight, ran without knowing tired even willing to wait for me are still uncertain. When all has been turned into a definite, arm also chage, you easily get tired and discouraged to easily give up on the state.

I know, everything can chage if we want try to chage. As well as you, if the circumstances are not on your side your should not give up so easily on the state because it was not easy to let go of love, a love that each fight one another.

In point tired Iam, I’m still trying to get up despite limping but not with you. I thought you were serious, it was not as serious as I thought. You simply take a position without thinking.

Now, I can not do nothing but effort and pray. Attempt to convince you back or pray that you soon find the right person. People who can chage you be much better by itself without coercion of others, before I thought I was capable of but in reality I’m not the right person.

Beautiful moments when first created, where the first time I had a new boyfriend the first time introduced by her parents. And that’s the first time we also have a both photo. Then taste happy acquired taste that I do not want to be fleeting. And on the day I feel special, special because it has become a part of you.

But alas, only in a matter of hours circumstances chaged 180 degrees. If it is already a line of God, I pray that you are matched with the right people, which is able to understand how your life, you can accept what is with all the existing shortcomings, and most importantly, can lead you to become a better person again.

Wassalamualaikum Wr. Wb